Female hypergamy is relative. The way in which it influences a woman’s desire changes based on where she is, and who she is with. It is fluid.
To make women want you, you don’t have to be the best man in the world.
You just have to be the best man in the room.
Draw eyes toward you, elicit smiles from those around you. Move with a looseness and self-assurance that you ride above the crush.
Tell interesting stories that engage the crowd and stir up their emotions.
No, be the best dressed. Sometimes all it takes is a tie. Pocket square? Now that’s just unfair.
Women always know which man is in charge of the room. And they can’t help but feel a stirring in his presence.
Own the room, and you’ll own the women in it.
In more practical terms, this also amounts to putting yourself in situations where you can shine.
Maybe there is some fun co-ed activity that is mostly done by beta dudes, such as hipster kickball league or trivia night at the bar. If you join, you’ll be able to stand out and plunder all the women bewildered by your dominant manner.
Even if you did something extreme like join a Dungeons & Dragons tournament, if there were any decent-bodied chicks there, it would be a cakewalk to bang them. You would have your choice of any item on the menu.
Though you will find the highest concentration of hot women at nightclubs, half of them are just ugly chicks wearing makeup and high heels. Plus, you will expend tons of energy for minimal results.
As a man, you want to be the big fish in a small pond. Be the alpha male lion sun bathing on a rock, with your harem of lionnesses and pride of offspring frolicking nearby. This is the path to ultimate happiness as a man.
Being a small fish in a big pond is what far too many of us are told is the correct path today. We are supposed to sacrifice everything for that “chance” to be the big fish in the big pond, but there are plenty of small ponds to plunder and live our lives as kings of. Women enjoy being the small fish and seeing how big of a male fish will eat her, but this is not a workable model for men.
Find your small pond, become the big fish, and live a life filled with contentment, rather than strife.