Be The Best Man In The Room

Female hypergamy is relative. The way in which it influences a woman’s desire changes based on where she is, and who she is with. It is fluid.

To make women want you, you don’t have to be the best man in the world.

You just have to be the best man in the room.

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Draw eyes toward you, elicit smiles from those around you. Move with a looseness and self-assurance that you ride above the crush.

Tell interesting stories that engage the crowd and stir up their emotions.

Be well-dressed.

No, be the best dressed. Sometimes all it takes is a tie. Pocket square? Now that’s just unfair.

Women always know which man is in charge of the room. And they can’t help but feel a stirring in his presence.

Own the room, and you’ll own the women in it.

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In more practical terms, this also amounts to putting yourself in situations where you can shine.

Maybe there is some fun co-ed activity that is mostly done by beta dudes, such as hipster kickball league or trivia night at the bar. If you join, you’ll be able to stand out and plunder all the women bewildered by your dominant manner.

Even if you did something extreme like join a Dungeons & Dragons tournament, if there were any decent-bodied chicks there, it would be a cakewalk to bang them. You would have your choice of any item on the menu.

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Though you will find the highest concentration of hot women at nightclubs, half of them are just ugly chicks wearing makeup and high heels. Plus, you will expend tons of energy for minimal results.

As a man, you want to be the big fish in a small pond. Be the alpha male lion sun bathing on a rock, with your harem of lionnesses and pride of offspring frolicking nearby. This is the path to ultimate happiness as a man.

Being a small fish in a big pond is what far too many of us are told is the correct path today. We are supposed to sacrifice everything for that “chance” to be the big fish in the big pond, but there are plenty of small ponds to plunder and live our lives as kings of. Women enjoy being the small fish and seeing how big of a male fish will eat her, but this is not a workable model for men.

Find your small pond, become the big fish, and live a life filled with contentment, rather than strife.

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  2. THIS —-> “Women enjoy being the small fish and seeing how big of a male fish will eat her,”

    Absolutely correct. A woman wants to feel she got this big catch, she somehow got this guy who is far greater than she is. With her wiles, she won over hotter, smarter, whatever other girls out there.
    For them, that is winning. A woman who comes to resent her man, will take it out on him. She HAS to love you to respect you. they cannot exist without one or the other.
    without respect, all she can have for a man is pity/sympathy.

    it’s not a good look.

  3. Chris

    Fuck Yeah. I’m gonna be a great white shark in my town

  4. Bill

    Dagonet, this post puts some theory behind what I am doing.

    I’m in my mid-50s and returning to the SMP.

    I like art. I enjoy being around creative people. So I’m a member is all of the local art museums and a frequent visitor to the local galleries.

    All of these places have gatherings routinely. Mostly as some sort of cocktail party.

    These gatherings are heavily attended by attractive, intelligence women in their late 20s to early 40s. Many attend alone, some with Beta boyfriends or husbands. A few attend with their gay male BFFs.

    Most of the men who attend alone are gay.

    I make a point of dressing well. Always a dress shirt, usually a sport coat or suit jacket, sometimes a tie. Most of the other men barely manage Business Casual.

    Being an attractive, well dressed, highly masculine man in this environment is dynamite.

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  6. Spook

    This whole article is one of the best things I’ve ever read on the Red Pill universe.

    “Being a small fish in a big pond is what far too many of us are told is the correct path today. We are supposed to sacrifice everything for that “chance” to be the big fish in the big pond, but there are plenty of small ponds to plunder and live our lives as kings of. ”

    So true.

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