My buddy Lancelot sent me this song, inspired by the conversations he and I often face that go something like this:
Girl: “So… I need to know if we’re exclusive or what. This casual sex thing doesn’t work for me (anymore).”
He and I both give a variation of the same answer, and he quickly put his version into musical form.
Next time a girl brings this up to you, you could give your version of The Speech, or you can just play Lancelot’s version for her.
My version goes something like this:
I really like hanging out with you. I’m just not in a place where I’m ready for a relationship in my life right now. If that doesn’t work for you, I totally understand. So if you need some time or some space, do whatever you need to, I completely get it. But I still want to keep seeing you, and I really enjoy our time together.